• jedwalsh0

    ahlevin  thank you so much for this beautiful comment! I want to carry your question, “What if the child that hit another child at school received a hug instead of an expulsion?” around in my pocket and continue reflecting on it for a long time. it reminds me that we all have choices, in our daily lives, about whether we offer metaphorical hugs or expulsions to the people we come in contact with. 
    thank you for your care and concern for your family member affected by mental illness, and for your compassion for us all.

  • ahlevin

    As I reread your statement, “Not
    believing in punishment,” I thought what if?  What if the child that hit another child at
    school received a hug instead of an expulsion? 
    What if the child in the abusive home experienced love instead of pain?  What if the person who stole a loaf of bread
    were given a job instead of prison time? 
    Punishments related to crime, intolerance and fear have the
    potential to turn cages into concrete walls. 
    As a family member of a loving, beautiful person with mental illness, I
    know all to well the feeling of living in the shadows of society’s cage.  Thank you for building a world of tolerance
    and working to bring the bars down.

  • KayWhitlock

    jedwalsh0 KayWhitlockThanks, Jed, I’ll pass along your kind words to Joey and Andrea.  I’m grateful for your work – and this essay is just stunning.  Many thanks.

  • jedwalsh0 KayWhitlockyes! i am using Queer (In)Justice again for class this semester — so crucial
    thnaks for stopping Jed and for writing this incredible piece..
    More i hope

  • jedwalsh0

    KayWhitlock  thank you so much, Kay! I can’t express the impact your work, especially with Joey Mogul and Andrea Ritchie on Queer (In)Justice, has had on me! I’ve been grinning from ear to ear all day and I feel so very grateful.

  • KayWhitlock

    Jed, what a powerful commentary.  Thanks for this splendid glimpse into your take on “negotiating the complexities of oppression and compassion.”  May we all take inspiration from your profound vision and be so thoughtful.

  • Thank you so much for this beautiful post Jed..Such a joyful wonderful vision.
    Gratitude